Do Braces Hurt? What Kids And Parents Should Expect At Every Stage
Nov 24, 2025
If your child is about to start braces, it is natural to wonder how much it will hurt and how long any soreness lasts. You want clear, honest answers and simple, parent-approved tips that actually help. You are in safe hands. Here is a step by step look at what kids feel during fitting, tightening, and daily wear, plus easy ways to keep them comfortable at home.

How painful are braces for kids?
Most children describe braces as uncomfortable rather than truly painful. The sensation is pressure on the teeth, tender cheeks, and a mild ache when biting for the first few days. This discomfort is temporary and settles as teeth and cheeks adjust.
- Day 1 to 3: pressure, mild soreness when chewing, and extra saliva as the mouth notices something new.
- Day 4 to 7: tenderness fades, soft tissues begin to adapt, and eating becomes easier.
- After adjustments: a shorter repeat of the first few days, usually milder.
Pain that stops a child eating or sleeping is uncommon. If it does occur, your clinic can help quickly. At Dublin Orthodontist, we plan gentle tooth movement and use smooth, low profile components to reduce rubbing and pressure. Our patients often tell us it was far easier than expected.
What to expect on fitting day
Fitting is straightforward and should not hurt. There are no injections and no drilling. Here is what happens:
- Teeth are cleaned and prepared so the tiny brackets stick well.
- Brackets are placed on the teeth, then a light wire is connected to guide movement.
- Elastics or clips hold the wire in place, and your child can choose colours if they wish.
- We show you and your child how to brush, what to eat in the first week, and how to use wax.
After the appointment, pressure builds gradually as the wire starts working. Cheeks and lips may rub against the new brackets. Orthodontic wax is your best friend, pressed over any bracket that feels sharp to create a smooth cushion.
The first week, a simple plan that works
- Keep it soft. Think yoghurt, mash, pasta, soup, scrambled eggs, stewed apples, smoothies with a spoon, and well cooked rice. Avoid chewy bread, popcorn, hard sweets, and whole nuts. Cut food into bite size pieces to reduce biting pressure on the front teeth.
- Cold comforts help. Sip cool water, try a chilled smoothie, or hold a cool compress on the outside of the cheek for a few minutes at a time.
- Use over the counter pain relief if needed. Paracetamol or ibuprofen can be used short term, following age and dose guidance. Giving a dose just before bedtime on the first night can make sleep easier.
- Wax and salt water are simple, effective tools. Place wax on any rubbing spot. Rinse with warm salty water for 30 seconds once or twice a day to soothe sore gums and cheeks.
- Keep brushing. Use a soft toothbrush and take your time. Clean along the gumline and around each bracket. A small interdental brush helps clean under the wire. Good hygiene reduces tenderness and prevents swollen gums.
Adjustments and tightenings, what they really feel like
Every six to eight weeks, your child will have a review and an adjustment. We change or tighten the wire to keep teeth moving steadily and safely. Expect:
- A few hours of pressure after the visit, sometimes up to 48 hours.
- Tenderness when chewing tougher foods.
- Less rubbing than the first week, since cheeks have already adapted.
Plan soft meals on adjustment day and the day after. Save crunchy snacks for later in the week. Most kids go to school as normal and manage fine.
Daily comfort tips children actually use
- Travel wax in the schoolbag for sudden rubs.
- A reusable water bottle, frequent sips keep the mouth comfortable and fresh.
- Orthodontic lip balm, especially during sport or windy weather.
- A mouthguard for contact sports, we can advise on the best type.
- A small interdental brush in the pencil case to clear food after lunch.
Common worries, answered simply
- Talking: speech may sound a little different for a day or two. It settles quickly with practice.
- Ulcers: small mouth ulcers can appear in week one. Wax, salt water rinses, and a protective gel from the pharmacy help them heal.
- Loose bracket or pokey wire: call us. We prioritise quick repairs to keep treatment on track. In the meantime, cover the area with wax.
How parents can make the adjustment easier
- Stock the kitchen with soft favourites before fitting day.
- Plan a quiet first evening, a movie night pairs well with mash and yoghurt.
- Offer praise for good brushing, use disclosing tablets occasionally to check missed areas.
- Keep elastics or aligner wear on schedule if prescribed, consistency reduces soreness over time.
- Encourage patience, remind your child that the first week is the toughest and it passes.
What about aligners, are they more comfortable?
Clear aligners such as Invisalign® feel different to braces. There are no brackets, so less rubbing. Children still feel pressure for a day or two each time they change to a new set. Aligners must be worn 20 to 22 hours per day for best results.
If you are comparing options, we are happy to advise on suitability for your child's bite and lifestyle.
When to call your orthodontist
- Pain is severe or getting worse after the first few days.
- A bracket comes loose or a wire is digging in.
- Ulcers do not improve after a week.
- Chewing remains difficult beyond a week or two.
We will guide you or arrange a quick visit. Breakages and urgent issues are prioritised to minimise delays.
Our approach to gentle, child friendly care
At Dublin Orthodontist, comfort is planned from day one. We use 3D scanning to fit appliances accurately, show your child how their teeth will move, and keep adjustments as light as possible. Reviews are friendly and efficient, with evening and Saturday appointments available by arrangement.
If something rubs or breaks, our reception team will get you in quickly. Parents tell us their children settle faster than they expected and grow in confidence as their smile improves.
Summary: short term fuss, long term gain
Braces should not be painful, but they do bring a few days of pressure and tenderness after fitting and after adjustments. With soft foods, wax, simple pain relief, and good brushing, most children feel comfortable within a week and carry on with school and activities as normal.
If you would like tailored advice for your child, you are welcome to get in touch. You are in safe hands with our specialist team in Dublin, and we are here to make every step of the journey as smooth as possible. Book your free consultation today and take the first step towards your child's confident new smile.






